Kidney Patien​ts Association
Barrie & Sou​th Simcoe



When You Don’t See Eye to Eye: Navigating Disputes with Healthcare Providers

When You Don’t See Eye to Eye: Navigating Disputes with Healthcare Providers

Healthcare is a partnership—but sometimes, even the best partnerships hit bumps in the road. Whether it’s a disagreement about treatment, communication breakdowns, or feeling unheard, disputes with healthcare workers can be stressful—especially when you’re already managing kidney disease.

At the Kidney Patients Association, we believe in empowering patients to advocate for themselves while maintaining respectful, constructive relationships with their care teams.


🧭 Step-by-Step: What to Do When Disagreements Arise

1. Pause and Reflect

Before reacting, take a moment to clarify what’s bothering you. Is it a misunderstanding? A difference in values? A lack of information? Knowing the root of the issue helps guide your next steps.

2. Communicate Clearly and Calmly

Use “I” statements to express your concerns:

  • “I feel confused about this medication change.”
  • “I’m worried this treatment doesn’t align with my goals.”

Avoid blame—focus on collaboration.

3. Ask Questions

Sometimes conflict stems from not having the full picture. Ask:

  • “Can you explain why this approach is recommended?”
  • “Are there alternatives we can consider?”

Healthcare workers often appreciate engaged patients who want to understand their care.

4. Bring a Support Person

Having someone with you—whether a family member, friend, or advocate—can help you feel more confident and ensure your concerns are heard.

5. Use Patient Advocacy Resources

Most hospitals and clinics have patient relations departments or ombudspersons who can help mediate disputes. Don’t hesitate to reach out.

6. Know Your Rights

As a patient in Ontario, you have the right to:

  • Be treated with respect and dignity
  • Receive clear information about your care
  • Refuse treatment
  • File complaints without fear of retaliation

📄 Need to File a Complaint?

If you’ve tried to resolve an issue and still feel unheard, you have options. We’ve created a helpful guide on how to file a hospital complaint in Ontario, including contact information and tips for writing an effective letter.

👉 Visit our Hospital Complaints Page


💬 Real Talk from Our Community

“I didn’t agree with my nephrologist about changing my dialysis access. I asked for a second opinion and got one—it helped me feel more confident in my decision.”


You deserve care that listens, respects, and supports you. Let’s keep advocating together.

With strength and solidarity,
The Kidney Patients Association Team

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